Honesty without shame
We name what's real — not to judge you, but to give you power to change it.
Writer, speaker, counselor, coach — Assata helps people tell themselves the truth and then do something with it. This is the whole of her work, not just the clinical part.
Assata means “She who struggles” — and my purpose is to serve as well as to heal.
I started out working with people one at a time. The same thing kept coming up: high-functioning on the outside, overwhelmed on the inside. People minimizing their own pain, normalizing chaos, and calling themselves “toxic” without ever understanding what was going on underneath.
Those conversations were too big for one room. So I took them to stages, into workshops, onto podcasts, and into the community I build with — coaching, teaching, and making content that helps people feel less alone in what they're carrying and better equipped to change it.
One person or a room of hundreds, the job is the same: build a grounded, judgment-free space where telling the truth leads somewhere.
We name what's real — not to judge you, but to give you power to change it.
Your story doesn't exist in a vacuum. We honor culture, identity, and context in every conversation.
No fluffy advice — just grounded tools, clear language, and next steps you can actually take.
Speaker, coach, counselor, writer, host. Different rooms, different formats — one throughline.
The clinical training sits quietly underneath all of it — licensed in New York, 7+ years of practice, an M.S. from LIU Brooklyn. It's the floor this work stands on, not the whole of what I do.
Assata is no pressure and no judgement. She is honest in a supportive way. She feels more like a friend or family member who cares. She allows one to see the error of their own ways without pointing a finger or reaching conclusions of her own. Being in this space with her feels safe for myself and my partner — we are closer and understand each other better as a result of working with her. Thanks Assata!
Verified Client ReviewI specifically requested a therapist of color, male or female, and she is knocking it out of the park. It's super easy and comfortable speaking with Assata. She provides such great avenues of how to go about things differently that while a bit scary, have been effective when implemented. 5 stars across the board. I appreciate you Assata!
Verified Client ReviewAssata is such an incredible therapist. Her expertise and compassion have helped me through the toughest time of my life. I'm more at peace because of our talks and the knowledge she shares with me.
Verified Client ReviewAssata Thomas is knowledgeable and experienced with working with couples of all ages. She pays attention to detail and does an amazing job of holding you accountable and recognizing what you bring to the relationship. Assata will provide you with the tools and resources for success.
Verified Client Review · CouplesI first started speaking with Assata when I was going through a divorce. She is now helping me throughout my day to day post-divorce and I feel like I need her in my life now to stay sane. She is absolutely wonderful. I appreciate her expertise. Assata is great.
Verified Client Review · IndividualAssata Thomas has a special gift. She distills your story down to its issues and speaks to them directly with confidence.
Verified Client ReviewI need Assata in my life! She is professional, compassionate and simply fantastic. I'm grateful for her.
Verified Client ReviewVery pleased with the way Ms. Thomas responds when my daughter is being difficult. I am grateful to have her help.
Verified Client Review · FamilyAssata is no pressure and no judgement. She is honest in a supportive way. She feels more like a friend or family member who cares. She allows one to see the error of their own ways without pointing a finger or reaching conclusions of her own. Being in this space with her feels safe for myself and my partner — we are closer and understand each other better as a result of working with her. Thanks Assata!
Verified Client ReviewI specifically requested a therapist of color, male or female, and she is knocking it out of the park. It's super easy and comfortable speaking with Assata. She provides such great avenues of how to go about things differently that while a bit scary, have been effective when implemented. 5 stars across the board. I appreciate you Assata!
Verified Client ReviewAssata is such an incredible therapist. Her expertise and compassion have helped me through the toughest time of my life. I'm more at peace because of our talks and the knowledge she shares with me.
Verified Client ReviewAssata Thomas is knowledgeable and experienced with working with couples of all ages. She pays attention to detail and does an amazing job of holding you accountable and recognizing what you bring to the relationship. Assata will provide you with the tools and resources for success.
Verified Client Review · CouplesI first started speaking with Assata when I was going through a divorce. She is now helping me throughout my day to day post-divorce and I feel like I need her in my life now to stay sane. She is absolutely wonderful. I appreciate her expertise. Assata is great.
Verified Client Review · IndividualAssata Thomas has a special gift. She distills your story down to its issues and speaks to them directly with confidence.
Verified Client ReviewI need Assata in my life! She is professional, compassionate and simply fantastic. I'm grateful for her.
Verified Client ReviewVery pleased with the way Ms. Thomas responds when my daughter is being difficult. I am grateful to have her help.
Verified Client Review · FamilyTherapy, life coaching, speaking, or media — tell Assata what you're carrying and she'll point you to the right door, even if it isn't one of hers.
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